The Climb

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  • The Climb: In Limbo, But Still Moving Forward

    Yesterday was one of those days that tested me.
    It started with high hopes and a plan, but like life often does, things didn’t go as expected.

    The Missed Opportunity

    My morning began with the goal of applying at a temp agency.
    I was focused and ready — but somehow, I ended up walking right past the place.
    The address got mixed up, and by the time I realized it, the opportunity was gone.

    It wasn’t about laziness or not wanting it. It was simply confusion and frustration.
    Sometimes, even when you’re doing everything right, life throws you a curveball.

    The Interview at 2:00 PM

    Later in the day, I had an interview at a property management company.
    I went in hopeful, ready to prove myself.

    But here’s the thing — they needed someone with a car.
    I don’t have one because I rely on public transportation to save money and energy, especially right now when every dollar matters.
    That wasn’t clear to them going in, and it wasn’t clear to me that it would be a dealbreaker.
    So once again, another door closed.

    A Call Back From Memorial in Gardena

    In the middle of all this, my phone rang.
    It was Memorial in Gardena, offering me a per diem job starting on the 6th.

    I’m contemplating taking it, even though it’s not exactly what I wanted, because right now, I don’t have anything else solid on the table.
    Sometimes you have to take what’s in front of you, even if it’s temporary, just to keep moving forward.

    I still haven’t heard back from the director or assistant director about another position I’ve been hoping for, which leaves me stuck in limbo — waiting, praying, and trying to figure out the next right move.

    -Today’s Physical

    Today, I’m heading out to take my physical.
    It’s another step, another box checked off, and hopefully another door opening.

    Every single day right now feels like a fight — a fight against uncertainty, against fear, and against the urge to give up.
    But this is why The Climb exists: to document every moment, even the ones that don’t look like victories.

    Final Thoughts

    Yesterday was messy.
    But messy doesn’t mean meaningless.

    Each missed opportunity, each closed door, and each moment of doubt is still part of this journey.
    I believe these struggles are leading me somewhere greater — even if I can’t see it yet.

    For now, I’ll keep taking steps forward, one at a time.
    Because no matter how many setbacks come my way, The Climb continues.

  • “Your Name Is Your Legacy”

    What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

    “Build your name before you build anything else.”

    Build your name first — the rest will follow. A strong reputation outlasts any job, any title, and opens doors no one can close.

    Jobs come and go. Bosses change. Opportunities rise and fall. But if people know you — your work ethic, your consistency, your word — then doors will keep opening. It’s not just about showing up to do a job; it’s about making yourself the type of person they remember and call back.

    If you take heed of that, every move you make now becomes more than a paycheck. It becomes a step toward being untouchable in your field and your community. That kind of reputation feeds both your career and your business ventures.

    Go get it!

  • When Love Hurts: Watching My Mother Fade Away

    There are some battles in life that you can fight, and there are others that leave you feeling completely powerless.
    Right now, I’m in the middle of one of the hardest battles of my life — not my own fight, but my mother’s.

    A Woman I’ve Always Looked Up To

    My mother has always been my rock, even when I was at my lowest.
    When I was serving 28 years, 4 months, and 21 days, she never gave up on me.
    Through prison walls, through silence and distance, her love was constant — even when I didn’t deserve it.

    Now, as I’ve been free for almost seven years, building my life back brick by brick, I’m watching the strongest woman I know fade away right in front of me.

    The Cruelty of Dementia

    My mother has dementia, and it’s taken so much from her — piece by piece, memory by memory.
    Some days, she knows who I am.
    She’ll smile and say my name, and for a brief moment, it feels like I have my mother back.

    Other days, she stares right through me like I’m a stranger.
    Those days hurt more than anything I’ve ever faced, even prison.

    She’s lost so much weight, her body is frail, and there are times when she’s nearly comatose.
    The truth is, my siblings and I know what’s coming.
    We’re not just caring for her anymore — we’re waiting for the call that will change everything forever.

    And that’s a pain I can’t put into words.

    Why This Matters to The Climb

    The Climb isn’t just about me finding success or rebuilding my career.
    It’s about fighting for mental strength when life tries to break you.
    It’s about holding on when everything feels like it’s falling apart.

    My mother’s decline reminds me every day that time is precious, and that family is at the heart of this journey.
    Every post I write, every video I share, every step I take — it’s for her, for my wife, for my kids, and for the people who need to see that no matter how heavy the burden, you can keep climbing.

    My Promise

    I don’t know how many days my mother has left.
    But I do know this — I will keep showing up for her, just like she showed up for me during those decades when I was locked away.

    This blog, this climb, is for her.
    It’s proof that even when you’re watching someone you love slip away, you can hold on to faith, to love, and to purpose.

    Final Words

    If you’re reading this and going through something similar, please know you’re not alone.
    The pain of watching a loved one fade is like no other.
    But together, we can share our stories, lift each other up, and keep climbing — one step at a time.

  • Welcome to The Climb

    Hi, my name is Tommy Ramsey, but most people call me Mr. Ramsey.
    I’m a husband, a father, and a man on a mission to rebuild my life from the ground up.

    For years, I worked in Environmental Services (EVS) at a hospital. I started at the very bottom — hauling trash, scrubbing floors, and taking on the hard jobs nobody saw but everybody relied on. Through determination and drive, I rose to management, leading teams and mentoring others to take pride in their work.

    But on August 26, 2025, I made the toughest decision of my life:
    I walked away.

    Why I Started This Blog

    I didn’t leave because I quit — I left because I needed to survive.

    New management, endless graveyard shifts, and overwhelming stress pushed me to a breaking point. At the same time, my family needed me more than ever — my wife, my children, my mother-in-law, and my fragile mother, whose health weighs heavy on my mind every single day.

    This blog is where I share my journey of starting over, of climbing back one step at a time — financially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

    What You’ll Find Here

    Honest Stories: The real, unfiltered truth about what it’s like to walk away from stability and face uncertainty.

    Life Lessons: What I’ve learned about resilience, leadership, and faith.

    Updates on My Journey: From rebuilding my career to growing my family’s future, you’ll follow me every step of the way.

    The Climb Community: A place where we lift each other up, no matter how far we’ve fallen.

    The Climb Is More Than a Blog

    This isn’t just a website — it’s a movement.

    I also run a YouTube channel where I share my journey in video form, giving you a raw, behind-the-scenes look at what it really means to fight your way back.

     YouTube: youtube.com/@theclimbblog
     Blog: theclimbblog.com

    Final Word

    I started The Climb to remind myself — and you — that no matter how far you fall, you can rise again.
    This is my story, but it’s also a space for anyone fighting to reclaim their life.

    Welcome to The Climb. Let’s rise together.